About
Ben & Jamesa


Jamesa
Jamesa is a licensed professional counselor, nationally certified therapist, and owner of Blue Lotus Counseling. With over 20 years of experience guiding emotional healing and growth. In addition to her counseling work, Jamesa helps leaders and teams move beyond control-based systems toward cultures rooted in emotional intelligence, connection, and care — creating environments where people feel safe enough to show up fully and thrive. Learn more about her counseling practice here. Learn more about Leadership Coaching here.
Ben
Ben founded the award-winning Three Trees Center for Change, known for transforming harmful behavior through evidence-based programs. For almost two decades he worked in communities and prisons to help individuals and systems become less harmful and more humane. Today, he helps organizations shift away from control-based leadership toward cultures rooted in compassion, curiosity, and courage. He is also the creator behind the popular ben the curious Instagram account.
